The same but different 🏡 Still trying to find p The same but different 🏡 Still trying to find places for everything. It’s just a heck of a lot of shuffling when moving isn’t it🌿 

Still very much in love with our rustic dining table from next as we were when we bought it a couple of years ago! And thankfully we managed to get 4 more matching chairs 2 years later, since we no longer have our booth! Perfectly compliments our new kitchen diner! I keep saying it, but we just need colour now! 
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No transformation Tuesday here this week, but hope No transformation Tuesday here this week, but hopefully next!🤞 We still have a 5 day wait until our wardrobes are delivered and that’s our biggest set back at the mo. Both bedroom 2 & 3 are full of clothes and unpacked boxes 📦 As daft as it may sound, getting these new wardrobes should be a real relief and the turning point for our upstairs! 
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Aside from that, we still have lots of pieces to shop for our lounge and bedroom! If only that’s what I could do all day rather than work, ay! Where’s your favourite place to shop furniture? I’d love to hear your recommendations 🙌🏻
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It’s a good morning Monday from me 🌊 The beau It’s a good morning Monday from me 🌊 The beautiful Sunday sunshine certainly made up for the drizzle we had on Saturday. We soaked up the sunshine and of course the sea breeze, trying to get out of the house, within reason ofcourse. We strolled up and down the seafront several times yesterday and Rhodie was well and truly knackered after. 
I hope you all had a lovely weekend, and a even better week. I myself am so excited for next weekend as it means we finally get our bedroom furniture, including the hotly anticipated wardrobes 🙌🏻
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Transformation Tuesday #2 in our new home 🌿 The Transformation Tuesday #2 in our new home 🌿 The garden! 
Thankfully we managed to get it done pretty quickly much to our delight. Having a puppy and 20 odd patio slabs for him to do his business on got pretty tedious pretty quickly! 
Now to start the garden planning - I’m actually looking forward to getting green fingered this spring! 👩‍🌾
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How much coffee is too much coffee for a Monday?☕️ Asking for a friend 🙈 Today we get our garden turfed and boy am I excited to see green outside our patio doors and a patio that isn’t littered with dog poo or wee! 
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Frosty walkies ❄️🧣Brrrr it’s bloody cold Frosty walkies ❄️🧣Brrrr it’s bloody cold out there. Minus 1 on our afternoon walk! But Rhodie LOVED it! Met lots of pooches and very much knackered from tumbling in the frost! 
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WFH Lunch breaks consist of carpet reads and coffe WFH Lunch breaks consist of carpet reads and coffee 📚 Determined to smash my 2021 reading target and where better to start than with The Killer Across the Table. What you starting your 2021 reading with? 
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HAPPY MONDAY ✨The first in 2021! My 3 weeks off HAPPY MONDAY ✨The first in 2021! My 3 weeks off went bloody quick, I think it had something to do with being so busy.
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Despite living in a new build apartment for 4 years before painting, the urge to paint in the new house is so strong. Everything just looks so bare! All white homes tell me your secrets! 
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Christmas is still on in the P Household 🎄🎁 Christmas is still on in the P Household 🎄🎁 Unlike so many on my feed, we keep our deccys up until January and I’m bloody glad. It’s only been a week since we put them up 😂 and this is the first time in weeks we’ve been taking it slow and embracing the Christmas period. 
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The house is a mess, and the dining table is just how we left it Christmas Day evening ( along with lots of presents ) and we’ve only managed a quick hoover. But Christmas movies are still high on the agenda and left over turkey is still a plenty! 
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Thank goodness for the Chrimbo Limbo period 🙌🏻
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A very late but still relevant Merry Christmas fro A very late but still relevant Merry Christmas from us 🎄🎁 Rhodie looked very majestic on Christmas morning waiting for his Christmas sack of goodies! 
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Charlotte – Nichole

01/07/2018 Lifestyle

Gettin’ Honest

‘That’s private, you shouldn’t tell or talk about that to people.’ 

How many times has that been drummed into you when it comes to personal health or finances?

‘ I don’t want to tell her, because then she’ll probably go and copy! ‘ 

How many girls think that when complimented and asked where an item is from?

‘ This was such a bargain, but I won’t tell anyone else because I want it for myself! ‘ 

How many people keep their bargains to themselves purely to make themselves look better off, or minimise the risk of fellow friends nabbing it too?


Why are we sooo against being honest, even when it could help others? 


Take this for example – How many of us get down when we consider our financial prospects, despite seeing everyone else around you looking like they have it handled? How are you struggling? Why can’t you go on 3 holidays, 2 city breaks and buy Tiffany jewellery every week?  

Of course we are being duped as the generation of over sharers, but the reality is, sharing is caring, even if it’s not what they want to hear, or you want to reveal.

Truth be told, your friend or family member or instagram pal either have their crap together financially, unlikely,  or decide to scrimp back on other aspects to get what they want. Either way, they are not killing it , they have just made decisions that work out for them and are slightly different to you.

Maybe if we were all a little more open and honest how we do things, we may spare loved ones feeling pressured and insecure in their financial stability themselves?

We live in an incredibly materialistic generation where we are based and judged upon the car we drive, the home we sleep in and the clothes we wear.  Yet we are all very quick to shut the lid on the secrets on how we manage and spend our money. Why?

And it isn’t just contained to our monetary spending. Oh no, we keep the lid on many a things with our pals and family, mainly through pride. NO ONE wants to share their tricks, struggles or worries. We all seem to just smile and wave.


Let’s all just swallow our pride for one second and consider how we can help others. Spread the word on your problems, be honest and you may just help someone else face theirs.


We all face various issues through our life.

Credit cards reconciliation. Mortgage concerns. Relationship collapse. Job insecurity. Fertility complications. Health scares. Depressive thoughts. Post-natal depression. Debt build up. Family turmoil. Job stress. Bullying. Sexual assault. Sexuality. Racism. Gender equality. Nationality. Sexism. 

Fears. Worries. Concerns. Feelings. 

These should all be normalised and common subjects areas we should be opening up and discussing with those we trust. Discussing and debating over the dinner table, educating our children and peers about. A healthy debate can only open our mind to others opinions and views on such topics.

In no way am saying we should share all and everything personal and sensitive even if we don’t want to- hell no. But the stigma of bottling away our troubles and not discussing issues we may be facing as adults needs to cease. Only then will suicide, depression and anxiety towards unfortunate every day life perils begin to fall.

Confiding can often open up communication with those that are probable struggling just as equally and you didn’t even know it. There is nothing better than finding someone else who is feeling or going through what you are. Someone else who can read your mind without you having to speak. Someone who truly understands.

Let’s start being honest. Let’s start sharing and discussing with friends and family our struggles, problems and worries. I promise, you will find someone on the same page as you, and you’ll feel much better!

Charlotte x

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